7 Essential books for any man who wants to evolve

If you are a woman you are interested in this post to know what book you can give to your man, husband, partner, father, son or brother. It can serve you as an idea for Christmas.

If you are a man, choose the one that resonates with you and evolve.

Some time ago I realized that inside me there was a conflict with some of the masculine values. I understood that sending was something that authoritarian parents did, that character could become sexist violence, or that doing what I wanted was to be selfish.
I don't know about you, but my mother raised me above all, besides there were many teachers in my school, especially in the first courses. Male references have been absent in the lives of many men of my generation.

Those of us who had the "luck" of not going to the military, got rid of the last ritual of masculinity that remained in modern society. Many civilizations have had rituals, "rite of passage", evidence that children have to pass before becoming men.

7 Essential books for any man who wants to evolve

In many societies there has been a ritual through which children become men

BOOKS FOR MEN
If you are a woman you are interested in this post to know what book you can give to your man, husband, partner, father, son or brother. It can serve you as an idea for Christmas.

If you are a man, choose the one that resonates with you and evolve.

Some time ago I realized that inside me there was a conflict with some of the masculine values. I understood that sending was something that authoritarian parents did, that character could become sexist violence, or that doing what I wanted was to be selfish.
I don't know about you, but my mother raised me above all, besides there were many teachers in my school, especially in the first courses. Male references have been absent in the lives of many men of my generation.

Those of us who had the "luck" of not going to the military, got rid of the last ritual of masculinity that remained in modern society. Many civilizations have had rituals, "rite of passage", evidence that children have to pass before becoming men.



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These factors and many others have made the man of today, in many cases, lost contact with some of the   most important male values .
Some are even afraid to use them because of all the bad press they sometimes bring with them. It gets very complicated due to sexist violence.

Let it be clear that for me a man who abuses or mistreats a woman, in any way, is the biggest shame of his gender. He should be deprived of freedom until he learns to respect women. Like it or not, he, like everyone else, came to the world of a woman's guts.
In this path of rediscovery of my masculinity I have done several workshops. Right now I am at the School for Men , the most advanced school for men in the world, working with the number 1 Coach for men,  Michael Hrostoski  ( Google says it) and I keep moving forward on this path.

When a man lives his purpose, he feels free and accepted, he can make decisions and put his talent at the service of others, starting with his wife, his family, his community and the entire world. To strengthen your masculine side, you can take a trip  , come to the Heroes School  or you can also buy some of these books.



1. The Way of the Higher Man - David Deida
The Way of the Higher Man (Global Consciousness)

If I could only recommend one book for the modern man, it would be this. It is a complete guide on how to recover your masculinity to allow your partner, (if it is of feminine sexual essence ) to relax in his feminine. Talk about how to live your life purpose , how the law of polarity works, and sexual techniques to have a much more conscious relationship, which helps you to advance spiritually. A Bible of modern masculinity.

David Deida is one of the most renowned teachers of sexuality and spirituality in the US, I have heard many of his audios, read several books of him and I am not tired of his teachings.

A man with fear who knows he is afraid is much more reliable than a man who does not know he is afraid. David Deida



2. The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sex Secrets That Every Man Should Know - Mantak Chia
The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sex Secrets That Every Man Should Know

This book tells all the secrets for a man to become multiorgasmic , does it sound interesting right? Matak Chia, shows the secrets of Taoism to control sexual energy and direct it wherever you want, essential for those who want to rediscover their sexuality in a new way.

This Thai spiritual master has spent his entire life dedicated to teaching Taoism. He has published many books but this is undoubtedly the most revolutionary.

Deep down, most men are terrified of women's infinite sexual capacity, and at the same time they are fascinated by it. This makes many men feel sexually insecure and try to compensate with some other force. Sexual insecurity may be the main reason why men have historically forced a physical, political, economic, intellectual and religious advantage over women. Mantak Chia





3. Enough of being a Cute Guy! / No More Mr. Nice Guy: A proven plan for you to get what you want in life, sex and love - Robert Glover
Enough of being a Cute Guy! / No More Mr. Nice Guy: A proven plan for you to get what you want in life, sex and love

I just read this book and it has been a revelation . He criticizes the "nice man" the good boy, who seems very good on the surface. However, this type of man, very common, lives frustrated by not being able to live his purpose , since he is all day, trying to make everyone well with him, busy in liking everyone, and thus can never reach any relevant result in your life, does it sound to you?

A man (also a woman) has to live from authenticity, but will always be mediocre and will not live 100% of his possibilities.

Everyone who considers themselves good guys should read this book. If you feel more identified with Ted Mosby than with Barney Stinson, this book is for you. If you are more Barney, this is not necessary.

In 2003 Robert Glover published this book that has changed the lives of many men who had the syndrome of the good boy. It gives you a guide to cure yourself.

What a man can do, any man can do. Robert Glover


4. Men are from Mars, women from Venus - John Gray
The men are from Mars, the women from Venus (KEY)

This book should be compulsory reading in institutes, it would save us a lot of suffering. A whole 20-hour workshop can be raised only with the lessons it brings. It is from 1993, the forms are a bit old fashioned, but most of the content is totally topical. Regardless of who weighs man and women we are very different. Getting to know each other better helps us to respect each other and live more comfortably. Bring up a dictionary so you can understand the language of the opposite sex. Ideal for couples who have been together for a while, you will feel super identified, with some things.

John Gray has sold more than 50 million copies of this book and continues to dedicate his life so that couples understand each other better and live happier.

Men feel motivated when they feel necessary, while women feel motivated when they feel appreciated. John gray



5. Iron John: A new vision of masculinity - Robert Bly
Iron John: A new vision of masculinity (Grail Knights)

The old roles and values ​​that were traditionally assigned to women and men are no longer valid. There has been much talk about the women of the 21st century and a little less about the men of this new era. This book presents the story of Juan de Hierro, a book of the brothers brothers Grimm and playing with mythology, the values ​​of the men of our time are presented.

Robert Bly obtained incredible success when he published this book in 1994. Highly recommended for those who like mythology and adventures.



6. The Female Brain - Louann Brizendine
The female brain (DISCLOSURE)

This book was recommended to me and I was very surprised when I read it. It is written by a psychiatrist and provides a lot of information. It synthesizes many scientific studies on the female brain that have been done in recent years. There are very revealing ideas.

Tell the phases of the development of the female brain, childhood, puberty, pregnancy, post pregnancy, menopause ... If you want to understand that person with whom you share the bed, this is highly recommended. Also for women who sometimes do not understand even themselves.

The author raises many questions: Why do women communicate more? o Why are they better able to remember details? and all with scientific data.

7. Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It - Kamal Ravikant
Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It (English Edition)

I have not found this in Spanish, so I leave it in English for those who understand it. I have not read it yet but it is on the list, they have recommended it very well. It is very short and can be purchased for € 3.

The key is to love yourself with the same intensity that you would use to pull up, if you were hanging on a cliff clinging only with your fingers. Kamal Ravikant